What life taught me.

Here's a list of what I've realized after being slapped by life multiple times.

I call them "life lessons"

School can't teach you everything, but life can.

So have fun reading my list, hopefully that it'll help you with your problems at the moment, or it's just simply a small reminder for you about life and its meaning.

1. Love yourself

People tend to rush into bunches of things without improving themselves in first place.

You can't be happy if you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend without truly understanding yourself. 

Don't have a crush on anyone just because you're single, love yourself first.

Keep this in mind: "It's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person"

Understand what you're looking for, a FWB relationship, or someone who accepts your flaws and agree to help you work on that, someone who loves you tenderly, responsibly. Whenever you're by him, or by her, you can do what you want, without any hesitation.

2. Don't compare yourself to other people

Quiet similar to the first tip, DO NOT compare yourself with other people.

They might be your co-worker, your friend, or simply your neighbor. 

It's good that you've realized you need to improve for the better, but just don't rush in.

It's important that you fully understand what you want, what that do for your life.

Don't try to follow any "figure" of a "perfect person". Social pressure is a trap and it's time you got out of it.

3. Being lost

Sometimes.

You find yourself lost.

You don't feel depressed or anything, you feel just... empty.

But that's okay.

Watching or reading what you like can help you find back yourself.

And once you've found "her" or "him", love him/her tenderly and never let they goooo.

Or you'll have to find them again.

4. There are ups and downs

Seems like someone is depressed (or not lol)

Whatever the reason is, always remember that you'll get over that soon :3

Here are some stoopid videos that I watch when I feel so low.

To cry alone:

High hopes

Slow dancing in the dark

Cute things to prove that hope is still here in life:

Real life "up"

Meme, of course. Meme is my life and who I am.

Wholesome parrots dancing

Dancin' doge

Have a noice day.

@sanglit

9:30AM

04/02/20